Moon Cycles to Plan Your Life By

Have you ever noticed that sometimes it’s like “pulling teeth” to get certain things accomplished and other times it seems like your life flows in tune like a symphony orchestra?

Or do you mostly feel like you are “pushing the river” with your life?

What if there was a way to tune into the flow, so that you could ride the tide?
Women of ancient understood that our cycles are deeply connected to the moon.

These women are celebrating the erection of the sacred moon lodge. The moon lodge was a place where women on their moon time retreated to pray and connect with their feminine gifts of sisterhood.

In fact, our physiology (bleeding) literally informs us that we need to step away from the daily flow of responsibililties and enter “the red tent” as it were, taking much needed rest from relentless “tending and mending”.

In ancient times, women would bleed apart from the community. While this occured on account of a patriarchal society’s fear that menstruating women were dirty- it did indeed serve a hidden purpose that offers much needed healing and restoration to women.

In this sacred place, women and mothers would relax together while sharing women’s wisdom and stories. In “the RED Tent”, the menstruating women were served food and tended to- by pregnant women and young ladies who were yet to commence their own “moontime” journey.
Think you could handle a few days like that each month? Rejuvenated and refreshed- your cup full and ready to continue to be inservice to your family and community?

While few of us have the luxury to spend time alone visioning and “mooning” with our women friends, we can still take time to tune in each week.

On my journey, I have discovered that much of that which I find challenging in this world, is on account of the fast pace and seclusion of modern living. It just doesn’t provide the elements that I need to thrive. Over the years I have been watching what I do, where the moon is and whether or not what I am doing is working well -or not. I find that this conscious attention to the cycles of the moon brings me back when I feel harried, overwhelmed, undersupported and like I am losing myself in it all.
Just noticing, is itself like a deep breath of understanding into where I need to stop and step back into the river.

I believe that as more and more of us are called to do this conscious noticing, we will collectively come up with ways to revive the much needed custom of the red tent, in our communities and for our daughters.

And to help you do just that……

We are super excited to be able to bring you gentle reminders each week about where we are all in the flow with the moon’s cycle- so that we can help you tune in and get more done by doing less!

As I write this, we are entering the waning moon cyle. Your energies will naturally begin to recede during this time as your consciousness begins to move inward. Release and let go of that which is no longer needed (ie: clear clutter in your home). Journal or enter deep conversation with loved ones to assimilate and absorb that which you encountered and learned in the previous weeks. Take care of unfinished business, so that you can create a clear slate for yourself moving forward. Finish up your unfinished projects so that you can move forward in creativity and make space for the visioning time of the new moon that is on its way.

Take a deep breath, tune in and let go!!

If this moves you, resonates or inspires you, we’d love to hear about it!

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  • http://twitter.com/NutritionNat Natalie R. Anderson

    Well that explains IT!! Thanks for your candid honesty Sherry! It’s refreshing to hear someone unafraid of tackling female topics! Also very informative:)

  • http://twitter.com/NutritionNat Natalie R. Anderson

    That explains it!! So now to make my husband and kids read this blog! Thank you Sherry for so candidly discussing women’s topics and helping me understand my waxing and waning moods/moons! So informative:D

    • http://www.DomesticDiva.ca Sherry

      You are very welcome Natalie! I find remembering this especially important when I find myself frustrated and annoyed being with my family at this time…I take it easy on my knowing that I am meant to be alone or just with women…it is not just my mind, but my body that wants refuge!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Emily-Rivers/725711711 Emily Rivers

    “Wise husbands of yore recognized the heightened energy field within a woman’s body, mind and psyche during her menstrual time . They would plot out a piece of land in the forest and surround it with a stone wall, high enough so that the potent menstrual energy could not permeate beyond it. Women convened there to share their living stories while squatting to let their menses go back to the earth. Through their menstrual blood , they were putting the Shakti energy that had been transformed through their own bodies back into mother earth to continue the cycle of replenishment and regeneration.” Swamini Mayatitananda~Women’s power to heal through inner medicine.

    Not all red tents or moon lodges evolved in patriarchal societies. Wouldn’t it be nice for our men to help us in this too? Our community supporting us the way we support it? This moon cycle was almost unbearable in terms of preparing food for my family, and carrying on with “business as usual”. I agree it’s time to come together to strengthen our lunar rhythym and flow….

    • http://www.DomesticDiva.ca Sherry

      Thank you soooo much Emily for that lovely reference!! YES, it would be amazing for our men to do this…..it would serve them too!! Let’s see…. Ka-Razy angry, exhausted and frustrated woman to contend with or step it up a bit and take on the cooking, cleaning and the kids “full on” for a few days and wait excitedly for a happy juicy woman to come home soon? Trouble is, I think that many men (because they haven’t had their own rites of passage or male guides to learn from) haven’t deepened into their masculine selves- the idea of mommy taking time away and not serving them is a painful idea to their wounded child inside. They don’t see moontime for what it truly is and so they take it personally and their child self feels abandoned. They digg in their heals because they don’t want to assume responsibility from a teenage like counterwill type place. This is what I have observed anyway.

  • Ldraward

    good morning…wow!…just discussing the moon cycles at yoga this past week…and I had mentioned that I was interested in learning more!…and here you are, another teacher on my path…thank you for your words of wisdom…

    Leslie

    • http://www.DomesticDiva.ca Sherry

      Ask and ye shall receive! The universe works in mysterious way!! You are so very welcome! Make sure to let us know about any other great resources or teachings you find along the way!

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  • Audrey Stadnyk

    Although I have always known the cycle of the moon affected me emotionally and physically, this is the first time in my life that I am actually embracing and using the times of excess energy to jam my schedule full of activity and also allowing myself the time I need to become withdrawn, contemplative and quiet when my energy is low. Last weekend when the moon was full (or nearly full) and I had tons of energy, II took the opportunity to cook up three pots of soup, two casseroles and made some ferments as well….all in one day. Now when I am low on energy and literally feel like I am being “sucked dry” by life, I can pull my casseroles out of the freezer and voila! One less thing I have to do.

    • Sherry

      That is awesome Audrey! Now is the perfect time also to release those “lifey” things that are “sucking you dry”….the moon is on your side!

  • Bethannmcivor

    This exactly what I needed to read this week, Thank-you!

    • Adrienne

      You are welcome!