How to Feed a Postpartum Woman

In the postpartum, a mother’s digestive power is weakened, yet her need for nurturing and vital nutrition remains strong.

This article is intended for those who will be cooking for the mom while she tends to her baby in the first six weeks postpartum. Mother, you can help make this an easier task by filling your fridge and pantry with the foods that are to be emphasized during the postpartum period.

While in general refined sweets are never a good choice, during the postpartum period, adequate sweet flavor from unrefined sources is essential to help “sweeten” the experience of the postpartum. Some examples of nourishing sweet foods are root vegetables and stewed fruit or wholesome desserts made with unrefined cane sugar, organic blackstrap molasses, rice syrup, dark maple syrup and raw honey.

The best foods to eat in the postpartum are whole foods that are easy to digest (warm, oily or moist, mushy or creamy textured nutrient dense and traditionally prepared foods) all of which increase the mother’s digestive capacities while the nutrition is easily assimilated. For example coconut rice pudding and Indian dahl’s make delicious easy to digest foods when the rice and lentils are soaked overnight and cooked in homemade broth. For more information about traditionally prepared foods, please refer to the cookbook Nourishing Traditions by Sally Fallon.

As well as fresh spring water (bottled at the source) or other purified water - (not distilled water as it depletes the mother of minerals) moist and oily foods are ideal to replenish moisture and beneficial fats, for example soups made with bone broth and lassis (an Indian Yogurt drink).

The process of gestating and giving birth tends to be quite drying on the mother, which is why daily massage with oil and oily foods, given with pure water are essential to rebuild mother’s stores.

Use healthy fats and oils more abundantly than usual! This is important for postnatal hormonal, lubricating, cleansing and rejuvenation needs.

Emphasize ghee (clarified butter) for replenishing mother’s good saturated fat stores, and also as an ideal digestive tonic. Ghee helps the mother to optimally assimilate her nutrition. Ghee can be made at home on your stovetop, purchased online or at an ethnic grocer.

Ample saturated fats from grass fed animals, helps the mother to absorb fat soluble vitamins and minerals which require saturated fats for absorption. Adequate minerals from almonds, seeds, seaweeds, cooked green leafy vegetables and fermented dairy such as kefir milk and yogurt (if they are tolerated) are necessary to restore mama’s mineral status.

The new mama needs even more nutrition now that she is making mineral rich milk for her new baby! In addition adequate fats and minerals are essential to tone and soothe the nervous system to ensure that mom feels emotionally stable.

Use generous amounts of sesame and toasted sesame oil, butter, olive oil (and coconut oil in the spring and summer months) with warming spices such as ginger, garlic (not raw), pepper, cardamom and clove.

As much as we want to consider the quality of the ingredients made to prepare the food, we also want to consider the quality with which we make the food. The person preparing the food is essentially infusing that food with their love and intention. The best food is made with fresh ingredients intentionally made with love by a happy cook!

While I recommend bringing the family extra portions of food to freeze before the birth, this is not ideal food for the immediate postpartum for the mother. It can cause too much gas for both mom and baby! Leftovers are considered to have degenerative energy and are best minimized in the immediate postpartum (great for dads and kids though).

Some unpasteurized apple cider vinegar in a glass of water before each meal can be beneficial to improve digestion and promote the growth of beneficial intestinal flora for both mom and baby.

While fermented foods are not generally recommended in the postpartum because of the potential to produce gas, because of the prevalence of bacterial imbalances we want to continue eating small amounts of probiotic foods such as lacto fermented foods (as dictated by our cravings), such as fermented vegetables, yogurt (brewed 24hrs minimum to break down all the difficult to assimilate nutrition) and kefir milk. Additionally, probiotic capsules can be included in the diet (preferable one that contains 10 or more strains of beneficial bacteria).

To summarize, we want to give new mothers warming, moist, sweet, oily and mineral rich foods that are easy to digest. We also want to avoid drying, cold, heavy and difficult to digest foods.

Resources to learn more about supporting new moms:
Nurturing the New Family e-book
Touching Heaven, Tonic Postpartum Care and Recipes with Ayurveda (e-cookbook)

  • CherylJazzar

    Very well done, Sherry. Thanks so much. I’m happy to share. BTW, why should coconut oil not be used year-round?

    • Sherry

      Thanks Cheryl,

      Thanks for asking for clarification! In general I think that we should eat according to the seasons and notice that I personally crave butter in the cool months and coconut oil in the hot months….but if you live in a warmer climate then you might love coconut oil all year around…. While we live in a deep freeze up here in Canada, I wouldn’t question a mom who is craving coconut oil in the winter… she should follow her body’s inner promptings over any “seasonal dogma” : ) xoxoxoxo

      • Debbie

        Just a thought. Weston A Price highly recommends eating spring/summer butter from grassfed cows due to its high vitamin content so if your going to eat it in the winter it would be a great idea to store it now.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1487133284 Erica Johnson

    Don’t want to distract from this excellent blog post, but what I want to know is where we are supposed to find someone to cook for us for 6 weeks! I would love to find some meal ideas that will work in the freezer, so many of the popular freezer recipes (like once a month cooking) are filled with processed foods. We are on the GAPS diet, so we are used to having ingredients “stocked”, but real food cooking is still taking up a large percentage of our day. I’d like to try to work ahead and cut down as much of the food prep as possible. Would love to see a “fill the freezer” meal ideas post!

    • Sherry

      Hey Erica,

      I know there is a huge gap between what postpartum women need and who actually knows how to provide for that!

      I offer plenty of ideas for engaging your family and community in my e-book: http://www.domesticdiva.ca/nurturing-the-new-family-book/

      If you have already had your baby, why not invite your friends and family over for a baby welcoming ceremony and ask them to bring potluck (with extra to freeze) so that you can spend less time cooking and more time enjoying your new family!

      I like your idea for a post!

      • CherylJazzar

        Finding a good postpartum doula can require some “shaking the bushes”. Ysha Oakes will be the first person I’ll ask when needing a postpartum doula who uses the guidelines Sherry wrote about. http://sacredwindow.com/

  • Cokelush

    I would love to cook for my daughter during this time but… she & her husband would say that these types of thoughts on foods wasn’t necessary. They are not into the whole/real foods thing & you don’t know how much I wish that they were!

    • Cokelush

      * weren’t necessary. :)

    • Sherry

      Just make them their favorite recipes and infuse the food with LOVE! That alone will be a huge source of nourishment for the whole family!!

      And look around for that earthy momma in your community and surprise her with the nurturing you wish you could bestow on your daughter!

      We are all family of earth!

  • Debbie

    When you write about eating types of foods could you be specific instead of vague? I would like to know what a warming, moist, sweet, oily and mineral rich food that is easy to digest for example. Thanks.

    • Sherry

      Hey Debbie,

      Here are some examples:

      Warming= cooked foods
      Moist= soups, dahls and beverages like lassi
      Sweet= cooked starchy vegetables and treats made with natural sweeteners
      Oily= make the foods with plenty of ghee and butter
      Mineral rich= crispy seeds, seaweeds added to soups and stews, cooked greens, kefir milk & yogurt
      Easy to digest: soaking and lacto fermenting foods such as seeds and grains make them easier to digest (the cookbook Nourishing Traditions by Sally Fallon is a great resource to learn traditional food prep methods).

      Warmly,
      Sherry

  • yail bloor

    and the dairy free alternative would be?

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Sherry-Rothwell/550646722 Sherry Rothwell

      Coconut milk

  • Aurelie

    In North africa, family or friends cook a Tamina for the mother after she gave birth. Its a semolina cake cooked with lots of butter and honey…..

    • Sherry Rothwell

      Sounds lovely!! Thanks for sharing!